Hi rabbitae86
Robx is right. Stop all the snooping...!!! It will only make matter worse. The phones and the cars shouldn't even be the issues.
From what I read so far, I heard a lot of I give, give and give and I want something back....!!!!
Please stop that. If you keep that mentality, I guarantee you will fail on every relationship in the future.
It is OK to give and expect nothing to return...
It is time for you step up, focus on your kids first. They need a strong father, a stable home.

NW626

Me:33 STBXW:38 S:3
It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you fight the fight....!!