Hi, Maria, I'm glad you were not offended by what I said; I was worried that you might be. We might not all agree with each other on everything, but you are the only one who really knows your sitch, so after considering all advice, hopefully you feel free do whatever you think best.
Gosh, I have to admit that I think cheating SHOULD still be a felony, and I loved those mental pictures of the adulterous pair being dragged naked through the streets! But I guess it had to stop being a felony when someone realized that at least half the taxpayers would be guilty, huh? Not good politics, although maybe it would get some of these adulterers to WAKE UP to the damage they cause!
There used to be a comedy routine based around the idea that this guy, who had a bunch of relatives he didn't like, died, and in his will he left each of them a "boot to the head!" I think that at each step in the D process, a cheating H should be served with a boot to the groin! (No, I haven't achieved complete detachment and forgiveness yet!) So, I'm liking this recent kicking discussion!
Maria, take care of yourself, and remember that we all care about you!
Peace and blessings, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
(No, I haven't achieved complete detachment and forgiveness yet!) So, I'm liking this recent kicking discussion!
