Hes in the military, and started his A when he was away. I had purchased R books, that he wouldnt read with me. And during this particular trip away I decided that enough was enough, things needed to change. He came home, said we need to talk. His bomb was just bigger than mine.

I am still not swayed one bit that having sex outside the M is a good idea. You dont think that eventually you will yearn for the intimacy that is more than a friends with benefits?

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...