Thank you SophieL. I hate that people are in the same boat as me, but at least I am not crazy!
Exh is trying hard to be my best buddy. He is venting and asking advice about his d14. Shes a good kid, just taking a wrong path. Guess I have new gf beat hands down as I have other older kids. Gf's are younger. Maybe that is why he is coming to me.
Scary though. I don't want to be rude, but don't want to be sucked in either.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!