Well, now I'm confused...... I had a couple friends and my big sis read the e-mails from "the guy" and they are not sure that the seeming contradictions are necessarily significant. This person obviously has English as a second language (which is not an issue at all with me) but they think that I should not "cut it off" yet.......
I feel so out of my depth here. I have been with my H since I was 17. I have never really been single as an adult. As you all know, I am a "wear my heart on my sleeve" type of person, and it's hard for me to "reign it in". So, with some good advice from some smarter, more "grounded" people, I am going to back it down a notch, but not cut it off.
On other news, my L did the initial legal sep papers today and she will file them tomorrow. H and I had several contacts surround that, but it's all good. H had some issues with the verbage in the documents, and I said he could have a L of his own look at it, but in the end said he trusted me! It's really funny....... we are sorta like comrades going through this together.
I have a LOT to be thankful for, I know.
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd