Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
Originally Posted By: K4D
Infact, when you truly love someone, you should already be happy with your life and that person be a compliment to it, not the foundation for it.

In my opinion, if you really believe this, you are getting it. It is counter to the movies, the romance novels, the TV shows.... All of the soulmate, and "he completes" me stuff! A couple does become greater than the sum of the parts, but it's because of their differences and uniqueness, not because they become the same person!

exactly. two halves don't make a whole when it comes to people and relationships.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012