Hi Mdoodles,

I haven't posted much over the past two weeks. I have these spells where I have to back off.

You have been a very busy girl.

I am very happy for you and little son that the move went so well. I am excited for you that he loves his room, it makes everything so much easier on you to see him so happy.

I was very sorry to hear that your jewelry came up missing. Have you ever figured out what H really has done with it all? I am sorry I assume that H is the one who took it, especially if it was not him. It could be the person who he brought over who helped him out that night he borrowed his fathers vehicle.

I think the silence between you and H will run it's course and there will be friendly conversation between the two of you again with time. You both have some healing to do over what has happened in your lives in the past couple of months. Once things look brighter for each of you in your own ways the conversation will follow. For you, you have aready made brighter choices, for H they will come much harder.

I think you sound strong and absolutely wonderful. You have grown so much even in just a couple of weeks, I can speak for everyone here....We are proud of you!!!!

Keep your head high and keep moving forward....your H can already see his mistakes, just leave him to live his choices. One day he will realize they aren't working out very well for him.

(((((Hugs to you and little son)))))

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11