Infact, when you truly love someone, you should already be happy with your life and that person be a compliment to it, not the foundation for it.
In my opinion, if you really believe this, you are getting it. It is counter to the movies, the romance novels, the TV shows.... All of the soulmate, and "he completes" me stuff! A couple does become greater than the sum of the parts, but it's because of their differences and uniqueness, not because they become the same person!
