K I have no idea. I like the idea of working on the marriage in theory, but honestly, have seen so many that don't work. I think that is one of the reasons I stopped posting in MLC, because I am not good to post to anyone who is still hanging in there. I think most should chalk it up before more damage is done. But it is a process.
I really hate that word, process. Screw the process. I wish to God I had not wasted so much time, but on the other hand, I did learn a lot. But I think I would have learned it w/o going through all this BS.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
