I don't blame you one bit for going to your Dad to help you. I would go to my Dad too if H spoke to me in such a condescending manner....
You have made it a point not to ask H for much of anything and the language and tone in his return call implied you were asking. He was way off the mark on that one....
It's like they can't be bothered with us when it's on our terms and at our urgence. It's quite another matter when they come around looking for help and sympathy. It really is beyond aggravating.
I would get the leaks fixed somehow on my own. Do you have a brother or brother-in-law that could help you before your Dad can get to it? For piece of mind and with fall and winter coming it would take a lot off of you if the leaks were fixed up nice.
I hope by now you have actually figured this problem all out. I didn't post much for a week and a half or so and have just gotten back into it over the weekend and today. Sorry if I'm too late on this one.
Take care,
Hope the sun's shining down there. We are in 90 degrees plus and humid. So sunny it's hard to stand out in it.
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11