Michelle I am so sorry for your pain I understand how hard it is how hard you are trying and how painful it is seems like your H is still on the fence and undecided
Im not sure if you have tried the tough love approach was that you? and then your H said he wasnt sure he wanted D? Is he willing to go to therapy? I dont know what to tell you just follow your gut you can go to therapy alone take care of yourself you are doing an amazing job of keeping it together peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow