Michelle
I am so sorry for your pain
I understand how hard it is
how hard you are trying
and how painful it is
seems like your H is still on the fence and undecided

Im not sure if you have tried the tough love approach
was that you?
and then your H said he wasnt sure he wanted D?
Is he willing to go to therapy?
I dont know what to tell you
just follow your gut
you can go to therapy alone
take care of yourself
you are doing an amazing job of keeping it together
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow