Young couple in need of help

[sumguy27]

I'm sorry if it may seem like I'm bumping my thread but I just have to let it out. How can she be like this!? I didn't take any of the vehicles or things I have purchased away from her at all. I'm not even making her pay for half the car bill even though she uses it every other week and its also in her name. I'm not even telling her to pay half the insurance since its in her name also. What the heck is wrong with her thinking?

I have been reading Orich's thread and others and it just sounds so similar with my situation. I know that there is a OM. Yet she keeps denying it and she said she has many new guy friends now. Yet yes I did some snooping when she fell asleep and went through her text messages. Instead of taking it to another room and going through it I read it while she was sleeping there on the couch and when I saw those dirty texts I couldn't help but say "Oh my God!" Which of course woke her up and she grabed her phone and said what I'm I doing!

No matter what I know what I have done and my mistakes. I'm not going to give up on my little and young family. I was wrong and I know what she is doing is only to hurt me to get back at me. I have been reading other threads and I too have to be strong for my really little ones and for myself.

Man I just can't believe I gave so much up for her. My hobby as a tuner, guitar, singing, fishing and just socializing with my friends. I have to get my state of mind back for me.