Boundaries, they need to be set up in place to protect you as much they protect her.
This sounds very much like an open relationship and in the end that has to be the question you ask yourself, do you tolerate an open relationship, can you share her with someone else.
Regardless of her past history and the sexual assault she suffered at the hands of someone I'm assuming she trusted, She can't use that as a crutch for her actions and tell everyone including you that she is confused and doesn't know who to pick and continue to live life like this with you by her side. Currently it sounds very much that she uses this as a crutch and I could be wrong but it sounds like she is being enabled to do so.
Hi Robx,
I agree with you. This is why I struggle with this issue. I think I am waiting to see if the psych determines she is stable later this week and leaves her meds where they are. If so, I think I will seriously consider this.
