Originally Posted By: Dia
Hi, Tristan,

If you've decided not to press that issue at present, perhaps you should set a goal for yourself to not ask her, not check phone records etc. for a certain time period - 30 days, two weeks, etc.


Hi Dia,

I like it. Thank you. I now have 2 goals:

1. I think I need to convince W to go to MC again.
2. Not to check phone records for 2 weeks.

Last edited by tristan; 08/17/09 10:11 PM.

Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1