OK. It is time for me to make some goals. The ones I had originally made for R are outdated:
1. I think I need to convince W to go to MC again.
I am up in the air on other goals. I would like to make a goal with her lessening her reliance on OM. However, I have no idea what kind of goal I could state that would be measurable.
I checked the phone records and noticed she called OM and talked for 18 minutes shortly after asking for a hug leaving the driveway this morning. Is this normal behavior for someone having an affair? It is baffling to me how one can maintain this sort of lifestyle. This cycle does need to stop, I know. But I am not sure a 180 is the right way to deal. Is it?
I'm assuming she trusts you Tristan, it sounds that way the update you recently posted.
Has she ever explained to you how she rationalizes seeing another man, someone she doesn't know as well and couldn't possibly trust as much as she trust you, someone who up until recently she would have considered a stranger and definitely not someone she could trust as much as you.
