Anyway, yeah, I've been here before. There isn't another guy, at least I doubt it. If there is they are either miraculously good at what they do or it is the lamest affair ever. I say this simply because she is either home or with the kids. There isn't really a time when she could be with someone else even if she wanted to.
However, now she wants to separate for three months as a trial. While I'm okay with this, I really don't know that it is the answer.
This time I am much more calm and together, since I learned not jump in every time she says she wants to try.
I did tell her that she has issues that she needs to address and if she wants to fix things, not just in our marriage but in her life, she really needs to address them. She agreed. She also told me that I need to address mine as well. I agreed also.
We have been married nine years on the twenty-sixth. We have five year old twins (one boy and one girl) who are starting Kindergarden this wed.
