Reward myself? With more work. The only day I'm off totally is Sunday and I spend that entire day doing laundry, grocery shopping, paying bills, etc.. Oh such a glamorous life.
I had forgotten to post this story to you all here but just posted it over on dday's thread. It's pretty funny in all and I think you'll get a kick out of it!
Here's an expample of some messed up WAS behavior.
My xh apparently saw me standing in a parking lot talking to a man. He didn't call me, he called my son asking him where I was (um...hello...you just passed me!) and who I was with. Marc told him that I was out at a class. Xh kept asking him which class, where it was, etc. until Marc finally told him that the class was at church and it was probably over by now (it was around 9pm). Xh was snippy with me the next time we had to communicate about Marc and then he came out with, "Who was that man you were talking to the other night? You guys looked like you were pretty close and having a nice talk." My response to that......."A very good friend who lets me practice my flirting techniques on him."
BTW, for those of you who have been following along for a while, the man I was talking to was the infamous CG. Dang but he gets cuter by the day darn it! Pretty good to be seen talking very friendly like with him...all 6'2", brown haired, blue eyed, athletically built of him!
Last edited by mishka422; 08/17/0905:32 PM.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
think of something small that you can do for yourself. Go get a 1/2 hour massage. Sit in the sun with the Sunday paper and some fancy coffee or something.
Actually, next Sunday a friend of mine is having an "Open House Slumber Party". I'll explain.....
She is a salesperson for a company that distrbutes, ummmmm....marital aids. They hold in-home parties with demonstrations (kind of). I went to one at another friend's house several years ago and it was funny as heck. She sent me a personal message on FB about it telling me she expects to see me there so I can blow off a little steam. I told her it might just lead to further frustration but I'd love to come hang out with the girls. We'll see.....
Last edited by mishka422; 08/17/0907:02 PM. Reason: typo queen!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Pretty good to be seen talking very friendly like with him...all 6'2", brown haired, blue eyed, athletically built of him! 