Sue- Don't send an e-mail and don't talk about any reconciliation or anything! Just communicate about your girl and that is it. If he pushes, tell him you don't want or need to talk about that right now and change the subject or get off the phone. From experience....once he thinks he has you roped back in he will revert to the same behavior. Look at all he has shown you so far like won't work, nasty and mean when he doesn't get his way, stoops to trying to get a rise out of you by threatning his own life, is friends with a lover and her family on FB, need I go on? Not attractive in any way. Just sit back an watch. Words should mean nothing, only actions at this point. Good Luck!
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt. M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs. D-22, S-18 I'm a survivor
