Originally Posted By: SueS
My sister thinks that I should let his family know that he's been telling me that he will harm himself. It's hard to reach out to them when he's there.


Yup, I still hold that notion as well.

I wouldn't send the e-mail, or at least don't get specific, just say you know, not what you know, but you know.

My XW has and still does use the boys, pretty crappy and explicity written in the parenting agreement not to do, but none the less she still does, just no where near as bad as in the begging. Perhaps they do it because they (WAS) realizes that compassion for them from us is no longer there, but the kids will always have it, and are just trying to sap off of it.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11