I'm sorry alive. I didn't mean to pry so. I hate seeing what we do to each other in our marriages. It just seems so damn wrong to go from what was at our weddings to what is now. I guess all things change, but people aren't disposable. And promises should matter.
No apology necessary. We are all here because we care. None of us are glib about marriage or our vows. It has been a gift to come here and recognize that I can have my beliefs about marriage and what it should be AND deal with the reality of what it is in my case and many others.