The beauty of imago is that your partner really helps you heal and you see how you are perfectly suited to do this life together...she is very lucky to have you.
My H and I went to a long imago session and a path was laud out for us and he even admitted it helped but subsequently he said it is not fir him (doesn't want to do the work).
It is powerful stuff. You can get "Getting the love you want" by Harville Hendrix to get a better understanding.