To me it is semantics. Being on here a while has taught me not to fear becoming indifferent or moving on myself...most sitches here end in divorce anyway. The ones that make it tend to require the same degree of acceptance and detachment as those that don't. It is counterintuitive but one proclaims and embraces that he/she is alive and vital and capable of thriving without the M. If the WAS comes back at that point, you've got something real to work with.
