BTW, I agree with AliveandKicking because I have been down the pursuit path several times - THAT is definitely a cheeseless tunnel.
It has been supremely frustrating to me, but even the most confident, loving and direct approaches are met with a distressed "Stop That! You know I don't want it!". A softer, more gentle pursuit puts me into "Pathetic Puppy Dog" (No offense Puppy if you are reading this - not directed at you), while a stronger approach puts me at risk of an assault charge.
Direct Strong and Confident: YES!
Not putting up with any Bullsh1t: YES!
Sexual come-on's toward Mrs. Thinker - NO, Not right now.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
- not directed at you), while a stronger approach puts me at risk of an assault charge.
