I’m sorry but I’ll have to join the “don’t read any more stuff” brigade, I think you have more than enough stuff to burn you H’s ass. In fact you’ve amassed so much stuff it will be like using a nuclear bomb to squash an ant (or any other insignificant object). File it away for now and hopefully one day in the future you’ll be able to dump it all forever.
Back in the 60s, when cheating was a fellony, when the coupdl was caught, they had to dragged to the police station as they were found, no clothes, usually with sheets around them. We still watch scenes in old Greek movies where the man protects the "lady" wrapping around her a white sheet. Those were good times... I would have kept my mouth shut and caught them in action. Just for the fun of it...
Sunny, a girl has priorities... My Valentino purse can rest in peace till winter comes back. NOONE is moving it out of its safe... LOL K
Cheating was a felony? WOW! Too bad it isn't now. I was amazed when I found out adultery was still grounds for divorce in Georgia and was usable in establishing custody and support. It would have been so good if was a felony!
It's late there sweetie....go to bed.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Sorry you read more things. I do remember the hurt and anger.
As much as some are surprised by your H's reactions, his anger towards you, it's EXACTLY what my STBXH did. He turned it around on me, accused me of an A, told me how I was such a horrible person.
Don't let it get to you. And don't put up with it. He just can't handle the guilt and anger he feels towards himself, so he's lashing out at you.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Also, bear in mind that sometime in the future, you may meet someone nice that the kids like also. Your STBXH will also be faced with the idea that another man will be in the kids lives.
I know you say that you need to know all the details of the betrayal, but at some point you have to stop snooping for your own good. Use the information you have now for your advantage in legal proceedings, but as you have said before, Greek divorce law is not fair for women. Hopefully, some legally fair financial justice will come from this.
Kalni....I say this tongue in cheek. I have a lot more water under the bridge than Kerry, but, in many ways...he is so far ahead of me....he has the wisdom.
Stop reading...stop hurting yourself.
Start the process of grieving and try and get yourself back on track. You are going to be OK...I promise. We are here for you. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
I honestly wish cheating was a felony. I don't think these idiots realize how much damage they do when they cheat. I realize that in theory it is not supposed to affect future relationships, but in reality it does. I was speaking w/ a friend of mine whose ex cheated on her w/ her sister, and even though it has been ten years, and she is with a great guy, it is still hard b/c there are times when she wonders. Her H now is wonderful and never would hurt her, but that is what we go through.
It so blows...
Kick to the nads coming up for ya!!!
(((((Kalni))))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
