google "art of manliness" and read some of the articles on the website. Some of it is in jest, but I do think it has some merit.
Carry a pocketknife . . . that is a good article to start with.
Also, most women (people?) like to be prusued. Pruse your wife. All day long. Touch her when you pass. Make eye contact with her and make her break it. Don't try to be her friend. Be her lover.
I'm a man . . . But I can change . . . If I have to . . . I guess . . .