Who is Kevin? don't make me search, I'm lazy right now... what did he do?
LOL. In a nutshell, Kevin's religious zealotry has kept him from detaching and focusing on himself. He basically can't detach IMO because he doesn't believe in divorce or that he can ever remarry...it is a church thing. Apologies to Kevin for my oversimplification.
When he makes progress, the slightest gesture of decency from his wife sets his heart aflutter and he seems to live for those moments IMO.
Anyway, whereas, I should not have been available to have lunch with my H, I didn't have the presence of mind to say no...just went in for it. Kevin will rarely miss an opportunity to see his W...it is always a chance to fix it or make a better impression.
I feel kind of cruel referring to him but I do learn so much about what not to do and where I do not want to be emotionally by reading his thread. If it works for him, all the power to him.
