"I noticed that although you promised to delete him, you have not done so. Please do so. It is important."
Thinker, you must admit this does sound like a girl...just replace the him with her...
Don't read too much into one half-remembered and quickly written sentence. Just because something is worded politely, does not mean it is was not forceful and direct.
Not getting defensive here - I like the dialog.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.