Some things like the fact she constantly puts me down as a lover, hurt badly. But, I cant make love to everybody to prove I am a good lover, or can I?
She put you down as a lover? WTF? I don't get it. Was he complaining to her about you and she's regurgitating what he told her? How idiotic and childish is that? Good grief!
Anyway, I'm totally on board with Kerry, naej, and John. Stop reading the emails, don't open another thing. You have what you need for ammunition in the D proceedings. I hope it is useful in getting the financial settlement you want.
As far as STBXH being 'responsible' for his time with the kids, don't expect too much if any understanding or support from him. Honestly, with th exception of some of the astoundingly strong men here on these boards and a couple of shining examples of manhood I have met over the years, few men see spending time with their children as a major priority in their lives. It seems to be some pretty bad genetic wiring. My xh says the words but doesn't follow through with the actions. Just don't get your hopes up that he's suddenly going to become a doting father when he has never made family time a priority. It's all about him don't you know?
Glad you are home sweety. Get those papers done and get them filed ASAP.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
