You have no idea what she thinks. You don't possibly have enough information to know if that's true. And again, how does it show a man's "security" to initiate sex? Do you know how many insecure men thinks that's what makes them a man?
And since you're not her, you actually don't know what she thinks either. Neither of us do, I can admit to that and since I know you're not a mind reader, I can confidently say that you don't know what she thinks either.
As for initiating sex, being afraid to initiate sex is being insecure with yourself, being afraid to initiate sex because you're afraid your wife will reject you is being insecure.
I also know that being insecure around a woman usually isn't going to win you any points with her. Secure men are confident men and that's attractive. Insecure men are clingy men that seek approval and don't take alot of initiative in their lives and I know that isn't attractive.
So how am I doing so far? Not that your opinion matters but I'm just curious as to how you're going to blow up over this response. ;-)
