What does he want?

[harpo]

cantbreathe.......Sorry you are hear.but you are in good company.



Has he looked into any help,can it be depression ?.I don't mean to imply I just speak from experience.it can turn any rock into a puddle of mud.That along with financial strain,kids, approaching the big 40.all of these can be factors.

And as DW said step back relax.strap yourself in take a deep breath.Don't push him further,at times it will be tough.keep hopeful,keep DB'ing

Good Luck
God Bless