Well, the kids did have a great time all around and that's positive enough for me.

Also, a friends daughter was really upset about her father not being there for her in any sense and that she wished XW would stop being so irrational to a good dad. That was really nice to hear.

Unfortuantely, "just staying away" from XW is not an option in my eyes. We need to co-exist to get these boys through life as best as possible. I swore they'd never be in the position they are now. And now that they are, we need to work together to make it as best as possible. If OM has a problem with that, too bad. If she has a problem with the fact someday I might just actually be up for having someone in my life again, too bad.

In the mean time I just find it comical. Hell even a 11 year old kid does.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11