Along these lines, I wonder if it is a good or bad thing to initiate in my sitch. It has been several months. We have no physical contact and no signs even subtle from W that she wants to. There is no OM. My IC says I should bring up the sex issue with her. Co-workers say just jump in and initiate.
Would initiation be considered pursuing? I thought it might.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.