breakaway, you take the word "taken" in the wrong context, I'm not saying anything like force her to do something against her will and if you understood that, give your head a shake, no one would ever condone that.
All I said was that maybe his wife wanted him to initiate the physical connection between them, she doesn't want to have to paint the picture for him to let him know when it's ok, she wants him to be secure & brave enough to at least try.
My advice is not the worst advice, trust me, I'm sure it's closer to the truth than you yourself would admit.
And if we don't want to admit that physical affairs are happening and that women & men are cheating on their respective spouses with other people and having sex, the kind of sex that is initiated without the fear of rejection, the kind of sex which is lustful & passionate & physical vs. the "same old boring routine", than you're not admitting what is actually happening in real life.
What is actually "worse advice" is lying to yourself.
I have chosen to be honest, direct and say what's on my mind and it's been working for me.
