Oh, please! Your H is such a drama king(?) He's attempted all of these overly dramatic acts out on you before, if I recall correctly. He needs to get over himself and face his own demons. No one can do this for him. The first thing he needs to do is to stop trying to manipulate you.
And his using your D to try to get to you is just underhanded and pathetic.
Stand strong, Sue. With every word and deed, he just proves he is still only concerned for himself and no one else, and that he will use you, your D or anyone to preserve his own self-interests.
