Keep reading DR.

Stay still for now. Back off on the R talks. DO NOT initiate ANY R talks for now, if he brings it up, fine.

Act "as if", happy, upbeat. Keep your 180's going -- GAL (get a life).

Concentrate on you and your kids, and give him some space. Do not be afraid, operating on fear is the opposite of love, and then you will stumble.

Post here, read other people's sitches -- you can learn from others here.

Do not let him know you're on here, do not let him see DR. These are your tools, this is for you.

You can do this.

You can breathe.

Stacy

Me - 45
D - 19
D - 17
S - 14
S - 13



Final - 1/15