Oh, wow, big coincidence on the bank situation and the overdrafts. Somehow my xW was recently able to close a line of credit in my name without the bank bothering to contact me first. This was the line of credit used to buffer the overdraft feature on my checking account. Well, I got slammed for six charges last week before I discovered what had happened. I too am PO'ed at how a national bank can allow something like this to happen even though I have been divorced from this other party since April and we had already completed the remainder of splitting of our finances back in January. This ain't supposed to happen.
On the LBS dating again thing, the WAS is typically under the impression that the LBS should have no further life now that they have ended the M. In their mind, the LBS is obligated to simply crawl in a hole and die. We're not supposed to ever find joy in life again, much less a new love interest. Never mind they might still have their own paramour.
My ex seems thoroughly peeved at me for continuing to so much as breath, even though she has gained the freedom to pursue her worthless BF. I daresay when I start dating again she'll be inconsolably livid.
