You need to take her feelings on this issue very seriously. When a woman starts viewing a man in that way, he is toast as far as a romantic relationship is concerned. You may need to get the book "Men Women and Relationships by John Gray. He touches on this very subject in this book and what happens when a man and woman have this dynamic going on. She loses all romantic and sexual interest in him. Essentially, she becomes the male and he becomes the female in the relationship. None of which is good. He calls it "role reversal." He wants to talk more and more about the relationship and how she has hurt him (more feminine qualitites) and she doesn't want to talk about it (more masucline qualities) He is more into " his feelings" and constantly wanting to talk about "the relationship and his feelings and such and she is more logical and wants to "sigh" and thinks to herself "not another relationship talk." etc. etc. role reversal.
Well Gucci, you just gave me a major Holly Sh*t moment. That was me and few months ago! saying; we should try, we should talk, we should spend more time together... OMG! I should have put on one of her dresses while I was saying it. That would have completed the picture. I thought something was strange, I actually felt the role reversal but I did not realize it until I read this ...thank you!
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"I noticed that although you promised to delete him, you have not done so. Please do so. It is important."
Thinker, you must admit this does sound like a girl...just replace the him with her...