I agree with everything you said. I know it has only been 4 months. It's probably just my impatience creeping in.
In the 4 months, I have seen a change in W's demeanor, tone of voice, and interest in me. She is no longer angry at me, she seems to initiate conversations often (not always), and seems interested to talk to me. This past weekend, she pulled back some, but that could have been b/c she did not understand her role in relation to me being at my grandfather's funeral.
I am not ready to give up on hte M or issue an ultimatum. So, I will push back on the impatience and keep moving forward.
One question. At this stage, since we seem to no longer be in hte LRT, should I continue with hte absolute no pursiong. I have been following this, but will occasionally initiate sending her IM's (she has done this too). I am not contemplating chasing her - NO WAY. Just feels like it's time to begin to reach out to her to some limited degree (hence why I started this thread here).
