well John...being experienced I can tell you this...Michele has an 11 year old daughter..the youngest of 3 daughters..and the youngest was fine with things untuil Michele and I started getting serious then she started acting out...and then when caleigh was introduced she started acting out a little more..mnothing serious or life changing but enopugh for us to notice...so when the youngest gets introduced to even younger then things start getting a little strange at times....when the usual dynamic is changed a little...then you can expect the young ones to change a little too..