K, I agree 100% with Naej and Kerry. You have more than enough evidence...for your sanity, you should fight any urge to think about the deceit of the last three years (you can not do that if you continually read e-mails). The process will be very difficult without the added pressure of new information. In my book there is no excuse for what he did.....regardless of OW's actions. I get a sense that there is a sentiment slowly rising of excusing him partially becasue OW was desperate sending pleading e-mails etc....don't get drawn in that. HE has to bare responsibility for his actions. Like Kerry says, use the info. you have to get the financial solution you deserve. If the Greek laws are as archaic as you describe (strange for the country that is the birthplace of modern civilization), then constant fights will do nothing to help you in your negotiations. That is what it has boiled down to now Maria....the future. You need to do whatever it takes to help yourself emotionally and financially. We have all lived through similar situations...it is very painfull...do not think for a minute that I do not feel for you and your kids....you have plenty of folks on these boards who give you moral support and well deserved compliments. You are back home now...time to get organized and slowly move forward.
