If I could give you some advise...decide what you want. If it's to save your marriage, set a deadline for yourself. Decide that you will have all the patience in the world and not PUSH anything, but take it as it comes for that time period. Then evaluate where you are as a couple. During that time period, no wishy washy thinking allowed. You're in it 100% for that time period. When it's over, see if there's been progress and if so, decide if you can go longer and set another deadline. If there's been progress but you've run out of gas, make your decision then.
That's great advice. My C (last saw last week) said he could see a time when I would need to bring things to a head if W doesn't. Otherwise, I will reach a point where I no longer want her.
I still find it odd that W has not brought up any R or D talk since April. Who know why, but it does seem odd.
