About 2 years ago or so, my sister decided she wasn't happy in her marriage. She had spoken to me a few times about it, and I was always trying to get her to work on saving the marriage. Ultimately, it didn't work, and they divorced. They are both remarried now, and both quite happy.
The woman that he married is a childhood friend of my wife. He had met her through my wife and I, and sometime after his separation, he ran into this friend and they eventually married. This caused some bad blood in my family. On my side, my parents, mom especially, thought that my sister's marriage with this guy might have been saved were it not for the friend of my W. My W was upset because she could not invite her friend to family parties anymore because it would be unsettling having all these people together in one house.
The reason I bring this up is because yesterday we were invited to the guy's birthday party. My W's friend was throwing him a special party because this week he is going under the knife to fix his plumbing so they can have children. First of all, I was kinda uncomfortable being there because his parents and family were there, and I am the brother of the girl who hurt their son, etc...
But beyond that, W kept reminding me what a great guy he is, going for major surgery so that her friend can have kids, and how wonderful their house is, he put so much work into it, and look how much in love they are. It was making me sick. I didn't let it bother me, I just smiled and waved. Oh yes, you're right he is wonderful, and yes he must love her very much to undergo that surgery. I bet they are so much in love they actually have sex! (OK, that one I didn't say, it was just in my head wink Meanwhile, I played with the boys during the party while she socialized. It was better that way.
Otherwise the weekend was fine. One thing I have noticed, though, is that every time she brings up a conversation, we talk like normal. Most times when I start one, I get a one or two word answer, and that's the end of the conversation.

Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.