I told my wifes dad that I wasn't accepting his version of events - he says it is all my fault - and stated that maybe what is happening is due to her childhood.
He must have thought about it because my wifes sister called her and they had a discussion about her being abused.
This is absolutely full on and discussing it over the net really helps because I can do it anonymously.
Counselling Thursday for which my wifes goal is a seperation - maybe it is best as she is in a real bad place atm. I don't know what the counsellor will say because her version of events is far far far away from reality.
