Trapt,

Sounds as if you are doing well and I'm glad for you.

I also got the "I want us to be friends....I want you to be there for me and me to be there for you." comment.

I think it's a combo guilt reliever and cake reservation projector on their part. If we're "friends" then what I've done to you wasn't that bad. And if we're "friends" then you'll still be there when I need you.

Don't let that crisisbabble mess with your head or get your hopes up like I did at one time. Chart your course with what is right for you formost in mind. If she ever decides to come out of this and back to you she can find you.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13