PS: But the worst thing you wrote was the way he speaks to you, gets angry, mean... and yet he says that YOU are?? I dont understand how he can be so vitriolic to you, at a time like this, after everything you have been through, how cruel is he?? Ok, so he says, oh you know what I am like, I didnt mean it, after you phoned his Dad.. but that is no excuse for his nastiness. Christ Maria, she's welcome to him. Al xxx