It sounds to me like you aren't really ready to date yet
Maybe not but this was not something I planned. I went of for a friend's bday and this guy is her friend from a different social circle. I had met him briefly once but that was a long time ago. The last thing I expected when I went out that night was to find someone who admitted they found me v. attractive. the put down's from H over the years had made me believe that this was no longer possible. Even when he asked if he could see me again I was totatlly shocked and initially said no (b/c I had D14 that night). However on reflection I decided to give it ago. We went out early and had a fab night. Even he agreed with that. Guess I'm just a little confused right now. He definately gave out mixed messages.
Part of me thinks that I should stick well away from dating BUT the other part of me got such a buzz from it. After 4yrs of absolutely no male attention it felt so good to be on the receiving end if only for a very short while. Guess it's all part of the learning curve (or re-learning as might be the case)
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
