[quote=bluerain] "Can you give me some examples of when I was acting effeminate?" - a better phrasing.
I think that this puts people on the defensive. Like you have to recall every time your spouse did A,B or C.
And I also agree that a "Real man" should be comfortable enough with his masculinity to not have to prove anything to anyone. But I guess its not always that simple.
And thinker, Im glad your angry. You deserve to be!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...