I really have to address the living arrangements and need advice on how to handle this without appearing needy and clingy but at the same time, recognising his need for space.
I have found somewhere that I am interested in (H does not know yet). H has said he will put his ski and garage stuff in storage, which will cost a fortune and by the time he contributes to D and I and all his other commitments he will be living on bread and butter, the OW will love that - don't think he has thought this out yet.
The townhouse I have found, has a double garage and comes with a boat mooring. Rent is cheap in comparison to most properties in Melbourne as it is a bit further out from the city. Not far from where we live now.
How can I let him know about this property and that instead of storage the ski and garage contents can go into this garage and the mooring is there for when he does take his ski out.