I know what you mean about your kids -- but you could set it up under your name here - or another handle.
I'm going to try to read your whole thread, maybe I can actually give you M advice, instead of random poetry, hijacking threads, and begging for dates!!
You wouldn't love her so much now. She was already cute, and a darling personality. Now she's incredibly fit! I could just smack her, if I didn't love her so much. (Mother of SIX, too!)
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Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Soccer tournament this am. Went to eat w/the founder of the SC, his wife and boys, and another family (GAG) from our team. The other family that came w/has this MOTHER that is so awful. Not only is she a b*tch, but she jogs through my neighborhood in a sports bra. Seriously. You're almost 50. Cover up! And, she's in decent shape, but she's a big girl. MAKEUP spatula'd on her face, STUPID outfits w/super short skirts. NOT a good look, even for a b*tch! (CAN YA TELL I LOVE HER?) AND, no offense to the kid, but he STINKS! I digress...
So, as we're leaving the last game this am, my H brings up a memory of one of our first dates. It was a funny memory, but endearing, and I think it was one of those moments that made him appreciate me. (He thought I was SO smart! LOL I'm really an airhead!)
So, the memory hits me bad. We get in the car, and (the H and boys are incredibly animated) I put on my sunglasses (new Prada's - DEEP DISCOUNT - they're HOT!) and try to cover up the sadness. We start driving down the road, and I'm quiet, but not over the top... am answering questions, etc... but not my normal, usual chatty, UPBEAT self. I'm trying to push this to the back of my mind, and pull it together, but H started looking at me questioningly, which I can see out of the corner of my eye. The longer I'm a bit quiet, the more H is trying to talk to me. Pretty soon I get it pulled together, and I don't think he saw the tears, but am sure he saw a tinge of sadness.
He decides to stop at an outlet mall (he NEVER shops... knows I love to, and haven't in a LONG time), and we all spend a couple of hours shopping, goofing off a bit, etc...
After we go on the boat this evening (the dog even had to go!), H goes and secretly looks at a pontoon, because he knows I think it would be awesome to have an o
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
OK, so H sneaks off and goes to look at an old pontoon. He knows I'd always thought it would be fun to have an older pontoon, paint it fun colors, cover the seats, put on white x-mas lights, and one of those light up palm trees... a WINE REFRIGERATOR, etc... Mom Party Boat! Our wakeboard boat is too expensive for me to take out and get back on the lift without denting or something.
So, he's usually pretty nice. We have a really good time. All is well.
Things are a changin' though. My emotions and mental well being are now being sacrificed here. Once I get this weight off. I have a goal of October 15. I will have confidence. I am working on what I need to do now.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I'm sorta fit -- pretty small, funny, smart and smokin' hot. I think we all have LOTS in common.
Maybe I can friend you on FB. I don't think your soccer coach is going to go for a blind date. Men are horrified of trolls - and you can't vouch for my non-trolliness. Although, Jeff can look at my FB and let you know I'm no troll. And I'm 100X's better looking in real life, I don't photograph well at all.
If the soccer coach isn't game for a date -- I say WE get together. I'd like to meet the Icebreakers!!
