I've missed you. I hope all is well with you and your family.
Yes, xW's hate-filled response to these revelations is just so maddeningly hypocritical. You would think she would stop and realize her own culpability. Not even counting her marital infidelity, which trumps anything I had ever done, if you just consider how she violated our marital covenant just by bringing her mother into our home and then conspired with MIL begin to spy on me and my sons and to gather information to try to justify cutting me out of my own family, you can begin to see how utterly without moral conscious she has become. I should have known when MIL began to actually manufacture dirt on me that my M was already in jeopardy (I found out MIL had been telling xW that I had neglected my S's when the reality was exactly opposite. xW chose to believe MIL's lies and wouldn't even give me the opportunity to defend myself. I was quietly being judged, sentenced and executed by their own private kangaroo court.)
So now that xW realizes I have known all along about the degree of her treachery, she's crying foul. Calling me a liar, threatening me with criminal charges, and even compared me to John Gotti (I must say I got a bit of chuckle out of the irony of that one.)
Still, I really do not wish her ill. I just want to be left alone and to have as little to do with her as possible. xW has decided to become just as vile and hate-filled as her mother has become. And I cannot reconcile that kind of person with the woman I thought I had married, so the less I deal with her the better off I will be from now on.
